byInternational Women’s Day is one of the most adorable days in my life, although I am not a female. You may ask, why say that? Many women have contributed to raising me since infancy, and I cherish each one of them. Today, I want to pen down a second article, especially for women, on something noteworthy from scripture which can brighten their lives. It’s about why you must choose to sit at Jesus’ feet despite all the busyness of life. Let’s dive in.
Jesus’ encounter with Mary and Martha
Mary and Martha, whose brother was Lazarus (the one Jesus raised from the dead), were two great women who helped Jesus in several ways. One day, He went to visit them with His disciples. As soon as they got into the house, Martha chose to busy herself with serving Jesus and the disciples, while the sister decided to sit at Jesus’ feet to listen to His ministration (see Luke 10:38-39). A few moments later, Martha came complaining to Jesus that Mary had left all the housework to her, so He should tell her to get up and help.
Having lived with women for years, especially with my mother, I know how conscious women are when it comes to keeping a home. They have that gift so well. So, to me, what Mary did was unnatural. She should have helped Martha, right? But Jesus didn’t side with Martha. He said,
[41] “Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, [42] but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.”
Luke 10:41-42 (NIV)
The busyness of life
From the scripture above, Jesus told Martha that there were too many things she worried about and was upset about. Instead, Mary, her sister’s, decision to sit at His feet is better. In addition to that, she’ll not be released to help with the house chores. Upon reading what Jesus said, several things come to mind. Are many people, especially women, living their lives worried about things that aren’t necessary to God? On this day, you ought to ask yourself that question, too. What are you doing with your life that is keeping you busy with something unnecessary before God? Evaluate your life with this question, and chop off any engagement you’re involved in that is taking so much of your time but isn’t yielding any eternal benefit in God’s kingdom for you.
The most challenging decisions are usually not between good and evil but between good and right (or better).
Choose what is better.
The most challenging decisions are usually not between good and evil but between good and right (or better). Mary’s decision wasn’t a sin, although it was wise and affected her sister. But Jesus said what Mary had chosen was better. You cannot make quality decisions by doing guesswork. No! Weigh balances and see how to work things out before jumping into any decision.
You are a blessing.
