byWhile embarking on some research before writing this article, I saw that several research agencies have reported that marriage rates are declining very fast. While I may not know the individual cause of such staggering statistics, I can say that one of the causes of this is people increasingly accepting sexual immorality, especially fornication, as something normal (and it’s becoming worse in colleges and universities). Hmm. But it’s not. Paul said something in 1 Corinthians 7:2 (NKJV), which is the anchor scripture of this article. He says,
“Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband.”
Handling the desire for sex in a hyper-sexualised world
Before the gospel of Jesus Christ hit the city of Corinth, a lot of them were worshipping idols. Because of that, many of them were noted for committing sexual immorality, even to the extent of committing incest (see 1 Corinthians 5:1). Paul never liked these things to be associated with believers. But today, things are worse. While the rate of incest may not be as common, sins like fornication, adultery, consumption of pornographic content (even seen on social media), masturbation and others are on the rise. That has led to many people’s minds being subject to thinking hyper-sexual thoughts almost every day. Even some pastors are victims of this, and that is worrying. No one knows when this plague will stop. However, as an individual, your choices in battling with it are crucial to consider.
For instance, having godly friends around you automatically puts a check system in your life on some of your actions. Filtering your social media feeds to ensure they are clean is another bold step. But there is a big one. That is a godly marriage.
Marriage can help you control your desire for sex, but much of the work comes down to your attitude.
Marry correctly
According to 1 Corinthians 7:2, the anchor scripture for this article, marriage is a great tool to fight sexual immorality. It is better to marry and have all the sex you want with your spouse than to be sleeping around with people.
However, some married people are also committing adultery and cheating on their partners. You see. So, marriage can help you control your desire for sex, but much of the work comes down to your attitude. When you marry correctly in the Lord, it’ll help you immensely.
Maintain sexual purity even in marriage.
Some people think sexual purity is all about staying chaste. But it goes beyond that. It goes as far as being faithful to your spouse in marriage. It is wrong for a married person to continue cheating, watching porn or flirting with people. So, focus on your marriage. If you are single, serve the Lord with gladness, be faithful in your job (or school) and establish yourself well. In God’s time, you’ll get your partner.
You are a blessing!
